The end of the year always brings bitter-sweet feelings for me. “Did I do everything I wanted this year? What new things can I/should I/do I want to do next year? I should be better at… I need to get in shape and finally stop eating everything in sight. I am going to be a better husband, go to church more, etc.” Or my personal favorite, “I need to work out more so I’m going to join a gym!”
Don’t get me wrong, I am all for doing new things in the new year. Isn’t that the whole point of a new year? To experience new things, set new goals and ultimately have a better year than the one past? I believe that it is, but what I am not a huge fan of is New Year’s Resolutions. The concept of changing one’s self in the new year is a good one and starting on the first of the year only makes sense, but the problem comes around mid January to mid February. We forget about the resolutions to change that we made on Dec. 31 and get stuck in the rut that we’ve been in for the better part of forever. Life happens, I get that and change is hard, but isn’t there a better way to go about it?
Lets take for example those people that make their resolution to get in shape. I did a quick internet search and found a couple of articles on the percentage of gym memberships in January versus the rest of the year and those that keep them. According to the International Health, Racquet & Sportsclub Association (IHSA), 12% of the years gym memberships are sold in January as opposed to 8.3% per month throughout the rest of the year. According to an article from Quora.com, 80% of all New Years memberships drop off by the second week of February and the IHSA states that most clubs report that members will only visit the gym an average of 54 times per year. Do that math, that’s just a hair over one time per week. Those of us that regularly go to the gym can attest to those statistics. January and most of February are really crowded gym months and the rest of the year the gym goes back to the way it was save the few that stay. How can you not be a gym statistic in 2015? One word, Consistency.
I mentioned that I’m not a huge fan of New Year’s Resolutions. New Year’s Resolutions imply that I’m not going to stick with the changes I’m making even if I really want to. You don’t agree? Well did you keep all your resolutions from last year? I can’t even remember my resolutions from last year. So this year, I’m not making them. I’m going to continue doing what I’ve been working on during the end of 2014. Instead of partying all night and spending the first day of 2015 with a hangover be it food or alcohol related, I’m going to eat healthy tonight or atleast I’m going to do my best and make certain that I get a workout in on Jan 1.
Instead of starting a new training program on the first of the year, I’m going to continue the one that I’m currently on in pursuit of my 5K/triathlon goals. Speaking of goals, I’m going to be setting some goals for the new year instead of those pesky resolutions that we know no one in their busy life will keep by mid Feb much less Mardi Gras!
Don’t be a gym statistic this year. Don’t set New Year’s Resolutions only to forget about them and give up on them before the ground has thawed for spring. Set some goals and write them down! If you write down your goals, you are much more likely to complete them. You’re even more likely to complete them if you write them down and set a time limit on them. Here are a few articles regarding goal setting that I have found rather helpful: Dave Ramsey's High Performance Achievement and Goal Setting and How to Acheive New Year's Goals.
What are my goals for 2015? I’ve been working on training for a 5K and the Rec-Plex Indoor Triathlon short course. I’m going to continue training for these things. The 5K I will shoot for is the Go! St. Louis Marathon and Family Fitness Weekend 5K. There may be a few more that I will end up squeezing in there but I am going to keep my training consistent. I will also be making a point of writing down atleast one Bible scripture a week that I have been reading. Something to keep me focused on God and my relationship with my wife.
I found a few tweets from a radio station that I like that I thought I would share.
#VOTD #faith pic.twitter.com/KeJATFaN1z
— Air1 Radio (@air1radio) December 29, 2014
#ThankGod ~@Air1Brenda pic.twitter.com/ILn4M0D1MM
— Air1 Radio (@air1radio) December 31, 2014
I sincerely hope that everyone had a great, safe, and happy new year. Don’t eat too much and enjoy the evening!